Egan helping model stage 1 - Answers Present scenario:
What's story?
Blind spots
Key issues identified
Egan helping model stage 2 - Answers Preferred Picture:
Brainstorm possibilites
Goal setting
Where does the client want to go?
Commitment and choice
Egan helping model stage 3 - Answers Way Forward:
Plans for the goal
How is the client going to accomplish their goals?
Possible strategies
There needs to be action
Turning strategies into action
What is advanced empathy? - Answers -Understand, communicated both verbally and non-verbally
-Goes deeper to see beneath the tip of the ice berg.
-Reflection of Meaning
-What is implied
Why is advanced empathy important? - Answers - deeper for understanding & awareness to what is
going on.
Tips to use advanced empathy effectively - Answers -Variety
-Elaborate
-Bring out the details
-Listen keywords
-Silence
-More Adv. Empathy
Lead ins for advanced empathy - Answers You must...
It seems....
It has to be...
What is self-disclosure? - Answers -Sharing information about yourself to the client and how what you
did helped overcome what the client is going through.
Why is self-disclosure important? - Answers -Builds a relationship
-Gives Hope
-Relates
-Teaches a principle
-Expresses understanding
Cautions when using self-disclosure? (Use Sparingly) - Answers - Overshadows the clients concerns
- Meet our needs over the clients
- Takes the focus off the clients
- Don't diminish them
Tips to use self-disclosure - Answers - Not drawn out
- Relevant
- Meet client need
Lead ins for self disclosure - Answers I can relate to....
When I was in a similar situation...
This is how I felt when....
What is confrontation? - Answers calling attention to inconsistencies
Why is confrontation important? (BE CURIOUS) - Answers - Reduces blind spots
- point out inconsistencies & discrepancies
- better self awareness (client)
Cautions with confrontation - Answers - relationship has been built
- do not use out of anger
- should not include accusations
- Be sensitive