SFL 160 FINAL EXAM QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
In shame, where is the focus? In guilt, where is the focus?Which is more healthy? -
Answers - Shame: focus on self ("I am a bad person")
Guilt: focus on act ("I did a bad thing")•
Guilt can be healthy if it leads to repentance and not hiding; shame is never healthy
Know the difference between sex, gender, and gender identity. - Answers - Sex:
biological characteristics
Gender: the behaviors, attitudes, & socially-constructed roles expected of and
associated with male or femaleness.
o Gender Identity: The way you view yourself- the degree to which you associate with
being male or female.
Which of the following are stereotypical female and male traits?
-Aggressiveness
-Affection
-Talkativeness
-patience
-Creativity
-Emotionality - Answers - Male =aggresiveness
Female = the rest
True/False Women are responsible for all of the work in the home except emotional
work. - Answers - False
What does it mean to be "gender-full"? - Answers - Aspire to attributes of godliness
despite stereotypes
What is maternal gatekeeping? - Answers - When mothers discourage fathers from
doing the work of the home and childcare in order to maintain their control over these
areas (re-doing what he has done, rolling eyes, belittling, critiquing their efforts)
Crucibles lead to ______ rather than ______. - Answers - Resiliency, adaptation?
______ is inevitable but ______ is optional (in relation to crucibles) - Answers - Pain is
inevitable, misery is optional
What is the difference between positive and negative sentiment override? - Answers -
Negative = when negative perceptions of a family member or relationship push us to
assume the worst of that family member
Positive = when positive perceptions of a family member or relationship push us to
assume the best about that family member (results in happy family)
Which of the following is NOT true, according to John Gottman?
, A. Happily married couples never complain about each other's behaviors
B. Stone-walling, or ignoring the other person, is not protective of marital relationships
C.Happily married couples behave like good friends, and they handle their conflicts in
gentle, positive ways.
D. Happily married couples are able to repair negative interactions during an argument,
and they are able to process negative emotions fully. - Answers - A. A complaint can be
good!
Communication to attempt to change someone like threats, bullying, criticism, is what
type of communication? Where is it very common? - Answers - Controlling
communication; very common in romantic and parenting relationships
What are some of the benefits of prayer?
-De-escalates conflict and reduces anger
-Facilitates communication and clear thinking
-Promotes forgiveness
-Spouses are more likely to be handsome/beautiful
All of the above
All of the above except D - Answers - All of the above except D
Research focused around understanding meaning:
Interviews, case studies, etc. - Answers - Qualitative research
What happened to the divorce rate from 1980 to 2008? - Answers - The divorce rate
DECREASED from 22.6% to 16.4%
Research focused around numbers and statistics (mean differences, correlations,
regressions) is: - Answers - Quanitative research
What are the three things Dr. Hill wants every class to remember? - Answers - TTT -
things take time
When things don't go according to plan, don't worry; make the best out of it
Life is hard, but you can do hard things
Which of the following is not true about "The Family" proclamation?
-One of only five Church proclamations
-Authored by The First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles
-Read by President Gordon B. Hinckley on September 23, 1995
-Official Church doctrine about the family - Answers - They are ALL true
To whom is the family proclamation addressed? - Answers - To the world
What are the nine principles for family success? - Answers - o Faith
o Prayer
o Repentance
o Forgiveness
In shame, where is the focus? In guilt, where is the focus?Which is more healthy? -
Answers - Shame: focus on self ("I am a bad person")
Guilt: focus on act ("I did a bad thing")•
Guilt can be healthy if it leads to repentance and not hiding; shame is never healthy
Know the difference between sex, gender, and gender identity. - Answers - Sex:
biological characteristics
Gender: the behaviors, attitudes, & socially-constructed roles expected of and
associated with male or femaleness.
o Gender Identity: The way you view yourself- the degree to which you associate with
being male or female.
Which of the following are stereotypical female and male traits?
-Aggressiveness
-Affection
-Talkativeness
-patience
-Creativity
-Emotionality - Answers - Male =aggresiveness
Female = the rest
True/False Women are responsible for all of the work in the home except emotional
work. - Answers - False
What does it mean to be "gender-full"? - Answers - Aspire to attributes of godliness
despite stereotypes
What is maternal gatekeeping? - Answers - When mothers discourage fathers from
doing the work of the home and childcare in order to maintain their control over these
areas (re-doing what he has done, rolling eyes, belittling, critiquing their efforts)
Crucibles lead to ______ rather than ______. - Answers - Resiliency, adaptation?
______ is inevitable but ______ is optional (in relation to crucibles) - Answers - Pain is
inevitable, misery is optional
What is the difference between positive and negative sentiment override? - Answers -
Negative = when negative perceptions of a family member or relationship push us to
assume the worst of that family member
Positive = when positive perceptions of a family member or relationship push us to
assume the best about that family member (results in happy family)
Which of the following is NOT true, according to John Gottman?
, A. Happily married couples never complain about each other's behaviors
B. Stone-walling, or ignoring the other person, is not protective of marital relationships
C.Happily married couples behave like good friends, and they handle their conflicts in
gentle, positive ways.
D. Happily married couples are able to repair negative interactions during an argument,
and they are able to process negative emotions fully. - Answers - A. A complaint can be
good!
Communication to attempt to change someone like threats, bullying, criticism, is what
type of communication? Where is it very common? - Answers - Controlling
communication; very common in romantic and parenting relationships
What are some of the benefits of prayer?
-De-escalates conflict and reduces anger
-Facilitates communication and clear thinking
-Promotes forgiveness
-Spouses are more likely to be handsome/beautiful
All of the above
All of the above except D - Answers - All of the above except D
Research focused around understanding meaning:
Interviews, case studies, etc. - Answers - Qualitative research
What happened to the divorce rate from 1980 to 2008? - Answers - The divorce rate
DECREASED from 22.6% to 16.4%
Research focused around numbers and statistics (mean differences, correlations,
regressions) is: - Answers - Quanitative research
What are the three things Dr. Hill wants every class to remember? - Answers - TTT -
things take time
When things don't go according to plan, don't worry; make the best out of it
Life is hard, but you can do hard things
Which of the following is not true about "The Family" proclamation?
-One of only five Church proclamations
-Authored by The First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles
-Read by President Gordon B. Hinckley on September 23, 1995
-Official Church doctrine about the family - Answers - They are ALL true
To whom is the family proclamation addressed? - Answers - To the world
What are the nine principles for family success? - Answers - o Faith
o Prayer
o Repentance
o Forgiveness
