Update 2025-2026
Secret romances are good or bad? - Answers exciting, but take a toll on you
How do friends help us in mate selection? - Answers women help women avoid contact with
undesireable partners. men help men gain access to desireable females
Jealousy is triggered by what? - Answers Threat to our self-esteem. Threat arises when we fear
that someone we love or care IS about to desert us for a better mate.
What do we seek in romantic partners? - Answers Depends to an important extent on what role
we expect to play in future: provider or homemaker
Sternberg's triangle model of love - Answers 1. Passionate love. 2. Compassionate love. 3.
Decision/Commitment
What is romantic attraction influenced by? - Answers 1. Physical proximity. 2. Appearance. 3.
Similarity.
Fatuous love - Answers Passion and Commitment (shallow, no intimacy)
Infatuation - Answers Passion alone (no intimacy or commitment)
Empty love - Answers Decision/Commitment alone (no intimacy or passion)
Compassionate love - Answers Intimacy and commitment (no passion)
Liking - Answers Intimacy alone (true friendship without passion or long term commitment)
Romatic love - Answers Intimacy and passion (no commitment)
Triangular model of love - Answers is Sternbergs conceptualization of love relationships
Compassionate love is based on - Answers friendship, mutual attraction, shared interests,
respect and concern for one another's welfare
Unrequited love - Answers Love felt by one person for another who does not feel love in return
Passionate love - Answers An intense and often unrealistic emotional response to another
person. When this emotion is ecperiences, it is usually perceived as an indication of true love,
but to outside observers it appears to be infatuation.
Love definition - Answers a combination of emotions, cognitions and behaviors that often play a
crucial role in intimate relationships
What plays bigger role in the early stages of relationship: actual or perceived similarity? -
Answers perceived
, Close friendship - Answers a relationship in which two people spend a great deal of time
together, interact in variety of situations and provide mutual emotional support
Dismisssing attachment style - Answers High self-esteem, low interpersonal trust. Conflicted
and somewhat insecure attachment style. Individual feels they deserve a close relationship, but
mistrust partners. tendency to reject first to avoid being rejected.
Preoccupied attachment style - Answers Low self-esteem, high interpersonal trust.Conflicted
and somewhat insecure attachment style. Individual strongly desires a close relationship, but
feels unworthy, thus is vulnerable to getting rejected.
Fearful-Avoidant attachment style - Answers A style characterized by low self-esteem and low
interpersonal trust. This is the most insecure and least adaptive attachment style.
Secure attachment style - Answers A style characterized by high self-esteem and high
interpersonal trust. This is the most desirable attachment style.
Interpersonal trust - Answers An attitudinal dimension underlying attachment style that involves
the belief that other people are generally trustworthy, dependable a, and reliable as opposed to
the belief that others are generally untrustworthy, undependable and unreliable. This is the must
successful and desirable attachment style.
Attachment style - Answers The desire of security experienced in interpersonal relationships.
Starts between infant and caregiver when acquires self-worth and interpersonal trust.
What do traits that we desire in other people depend on? - Answers context
Besides physical, what other factors influence our attraction for a person - Answers Similarity to
an individual in terms if attitudes, beliefs, values and interests.
What theories offer explanations for the effects of similarity in attraction? - Answers 1. Balance
theory 2. Social Comparison theory 3. Evolutionary perspective
Social comparison theory - Answers Festinger 1954 suggested that people compare themselves
to others because for many domains and attributes there is no objective yardstick with which to
evaluate self so we compare ourselves to others to gain this information
Balance theory - Answers The formulations of Reider and Newcomb that specify the relationship
among 1. individual's liking for another person 2. his or her attitude about a given topic 3. the
other person's attitude about the same topic. Balance (=liking and agreement) results in positive
emotional state. Imbalance (liking and disagreement) results in negative state and desire to
restore balance. Non balance (dislike and disagreement) leads to indifference
Matching hypothesis - Answers Although we would prefer extremely attractive mate, we
generally focus to obtain one whose physical beauty is about the same as our own