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, What is a Philosophy? - ANS pursuit of wisdom; it helps us answer fundamental questions
about what, why, and how. determine the way we view objects and experiences in our lives as
well as the way we view people and our relationships with them. determine the values we hold.
What two things must you do to develop your coaching philosophy? - ANS The first is to
develop greater self-awareness—to get to know yourself better.
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The second is to decide what your objectives are in coaching.
Do you know yourself? - ANS No, I am learning to know myself better through determining
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my personal values.
How can you become more aware of who you are? - ANS ▶By reflecting on your own
beliefs and assumptions
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▶ By requesting feedback from other people on how they see you and how they react to you
How would you describe your ideal, public, and real selves? - ANS Ideal Self: refers to the
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person you would like to be; it represents your values, your sense of right and wrong. what you
expect and demand of yourself; it is typically based on moral principles acquired from your
family, other important people in your life, and through self-reflection
Public Self: the image you believe others have of you. You want others to believe certain things
about you so that they respect you, love you, and help you meet your goals. If others believe the
wrong things about you, they may ignore you, reject you, or punish you.
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Real Self: the sum of those subjective thoughts, feelings, and needs that you see as being the
authentic you. Your real self is continually changing, and healthy people strive to honestly know
themselves and to relate their inner selves to the realities of the outside world. Through
interactions with others you come to understand, accept, and experience your real self.
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What is your level of self-esteem, and how does this affect your effectiveness as a coach? -
ANS Self-esteem is not achieved by defeating others but by living up to your own realistic
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standards. success as a coach is strongly related to your self-esteem, to how you value
yourself. If you have confidence, you will help develop confidence in those around you. If you
feel worthy as a person, you will recognize worth in others. If you care about your self, you will
more likely care about others. It is not mentally healthy to base your self-esteem on winning and
losing.
Are appropriately self-disclosing with your athletes? Do you share enough to build a trusting
relationship between you and your athletes but not so much that you burden athletes with your
personal issues? - ANS detachment serves only one of two purposes: to try to extract more
effort from the athletes, or to conceal the coach's doubts about his or her self-concept.