not really strangers — intimacy &
relationship pack WNRS: Self-
Reflection, WNRS: Self-Love, WNRS
XXX, Questions 2025/2026 | 670 Terms
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We're Not Really Strangers 2 Player Instructions -
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Set aside the Final Card for the end of the game. Sit facing one another with Level 1 cards face down.
Now, stare deeply into each other's eyes--seriously, starer into each other's eyes. The first to blink
draws first.
Player A draws a card. Player B answers. Alternative back and forth until a minimum of 15 cards are
played for each level. Once 15 cards or more have been played per round, feel free to advance to the
next level. Make sure to keep a pile of used cards separate to avoid confusion.
Option to answer questions you ask your partner and vice versa.
Final Card
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Final Card: When's the lats time you received a handwritten note? That one time from your 6th grade
crush? Us too. Within the deck you'll find the final card that wraps this game. Use the pencil and
notepad to write your partner a note. Fold and exchange. Open up only once you two have parted.
,You do not have to play with a stranger. Play with any human(s) you wish!
Level 1 Perception: Do you know how others see you? Level 1 is about gaining perspective on what first
impressions we give off and challenging the assumptions we make about others.
Answer the first response that comes to mind. If guessed incorrectly by your partner, feel free to reveal
the actual answer.
Example:
Player A: What do you think I do for a living?
Player B: You look like an...athlete.
Player A: Interesting, I'm actually an accountant!
If playing with friends, answer the perception questions as if you were meeting for the first time. Feel
free to skip any that you two already know about each other.
Level 2: Connection. Who are you really? This round is about asking the rarely asked questions and
connecting on a deeper level.
Level 3: Time to reflect on your game experience.
Dig Deeper Cards:
Each player gets a dig deeper card, which can be used once per level. These cards are meant to
encourage transparency if you feel your partner is holding you back.
Wildcards: You like the way this sounds, don't you? If you draw a wildcard your partner must complete
the instructions unless otherwise stated. These are meant to be spontaneous and a lotta bit silly. These
cards can appear at any moment during the game! Certain wildcards have a time limit. Have a phone
handy to set the timer.
If you draw a "create your own question" wild card, player holding the card must create their own
question for the partner.
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,We're Not Really Strangers Multiplayer Instructions -
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This game is optimized for 2 players, however play this game with up to 6 people or an even stranger
experience. To begin, sit in a circle with your group and place the game in the center.
Set a pencil in the middle of the group. If you draw a wildcard spin the pencil once. The player that the
pencil's sharp end lands on must perform the wildcard with you. (Spin the bottle style).
Set a 'dig deeper' card on each side of the circle for anyone's use throughout the game. Each player can
use the dig deeper card one time per level. Remember these cards are to encourage transparency!
To begin, write your first impressions in three sentences of less of each player in the group on a sheet
of WNRS paper. Once every player has written their notes for each other, fold and exchange among
the group. Make sure notes remain folded and anonymous. These are to be read aloud once the game is
over. (Quick tip: rip a single sheet to multiple pieces to write your notes for each player to be eco
friendly!)
*Skip first impressions questions in level 1*
If you are playing with friends, try to remember what your first impressions were. Ignore the 'Final Card'
when playing in a group setting.
Person most hesitant to play this game draws first.
Level 1: Each player reads a question aloud and every participant answers the questions.
Example:
Player A: What do you think I do for a living?
Player B: You look like an app developer!
Player C: no offense, but...
Player D, idk, starving art?
etc.
, If no one guesses correctly feel free to reveal the answer.
Each player must read at least 2 question cards from this level and answer every question posed by
other players to move on to the next level.
Level 2: With the deck face down, each player will draw a card. When it's your turn, read your question
aloud and choose one player in the group t
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DIG DEEPER -
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Final Card -
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Each player write a message to the other, fold and exchange. Open only once you two have parted.
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Wildcard: Maintain eye contact for thirty seconds. What did you notice?
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